Letting anybody get to you is a waste of time.
Plenty of people will love and admire you if you believe it to be possible.
Focusing on another person more than you focus on yourself is simply exhausting.
Worrying about their feelings more than you do your own is exhausting.
Prioritizing them over yourself is exhausting, as it inadvertently leads to putting yourself down.
Feeling more need for them than you do for your own happiness is the most exhausting thing of all.
Do you know why I always say “Don’t trail the person you like on social media?”
Because if you do, you think they’re better than you are. You think they’re cooler, happier and have more power.
You assume they don’t feel the same and that you have no chance with them, all because they’re not messaging the exact moment you are indulging in your attachment.
You prioritize them when you should be prioritizing yourself.
Yesterday, I discussed one’s resolve being a crucial factor in the process of attracting one’s dream life. This is certainly true in my case.
One of my closest friends once said to me, “If you don’t have a burning desire to do something or be with someone, it seems to encounter problems. You’re bored after only being amused with it short-term. You sometimes even want a reason to leave.”
I completely agree.
It all rests in my resolve to live my desire. This resolve is always boosted by love and gratitude for the said desire.
On rare occasions, my resolve had come as a result of being sick of questioning and experiencing some negative thoughts. I would observe and entertain these negative thoughts, sometimes even using them to reevaluate my desire. I would say,
“If my desire is strong enough, these questions can’t hurt it but can even help.”
You receive what you ask for and this type of energy, one that offers no resistance even to the thoughts of resistance, can only strengthen one’s resolve.
Do you desire your desire strongly, with all your heart?
Has your resolve been damaged by your own negative thoughts, a lack of faith in your manifesting abilities and the refusal to believe? If this happened to you, don’t worry, as everything can be fixed once your point of view has changed. As soon as you redirect your attention and your feelings to positive, to the ideas you love instead of those you fear, so will your reality.
Listen to what your heart says about your desires – it’ll strengthen your resolve. Any feeling of happiness around your desire comes from your heart. The human heart produces strong energy. Focus on the happiness (the idea of) your desire gives you, love it and even more will be produced. Look back on your life – you gained everything you have today because you felt positively about it. Everything that left your life did so once you started feeling negatively about it in one way or another.
Does your resolve respond to your self-respect? If you feel that being with another would mean disrespecting yourself, your resolve may falter. The person you had your eye on might turn out to be the opposite of what you thought before you manifested them; they might be weak or unremarkable, all showing through your time together. Their best might never be enough for you. If you feel that settling for a specific job would mean you’ve said yes to the second best, this may produce a manifesting block; however, if you feel this way, you are unsure of the potential for your happiness.
My resolve must encompass: