Wanna talk about signs?
Just as I had begun browsing new laptops over the weekend, my current one suddenly became the only device I own refusing to connect to Wi-Fi.
What do you think that means?
Today, I thought about my personal boosts of positive creation energy.
In order to boost positive creation and the manifestation of our desires, we are advised to find the manifestation helpers we enjoy. These methods can be visualization, sending out heart energy, repeating affirmations, perceiving our desires as if they have manifested already or anything similar.
One of my closest friends characterized a particular manifestation method in my case by saying,
“You’re like an excited school girl!”
And she was right.
In the company of closest friends, I love to talk about my planned manifestations as if they were a done deal, simply because they are. When I make decisions to manifest a certain desire, I love to gush about it. This doesn’t happen with every single planned manifestation but only the ones that feel good, so to speak – forgetting about some of my desires makes me happy but when it comes to some others, I love to share them with my closest friends.
This is how the process works.
When I talk about any desire that evokes a wish to gush, I am completely present in that moment. I don’t think about how exactly this specific desire might manifest and am just certain that it will, planning it while talking to a friend. When planning specific details around that desire, I adjust them to the present circumstances I see while being unattached to any details altogether, entertaining them as nothing but options and staying open to any possible manifestation path. If any negative thoughts come up during or after the planning, I already know they’re false – my post manifestation world is real, palpable, my (already) current reality and my new life.
After sharing my stories, I receive many signs of my desire manifesting.
If you were to talk about your desire today, how would you feel? Explore this as an option. If you were to discuss it, would you feel like it’s a done deal or think about your desire potentially not even manifesting?
Do you know that your desire belongs to you already but choose not to share it with anyone?
You might have a desire you wish to manifest one day but are consciously not ready for just yet. Or, you may have finally become ready to manifest a desire you’ve been wanting for a while.
You know that you’re ready to manifest your desire if you naturally dismiss any distractions and focus on the essence of attraction. Talking about your desire can provide the right focus, as long as you enjoy talking and sharing.
The fear of letting go only means you are not vibrating at a high enough frequency to live your desire just yet.
This is why we can only see ourselves having our desires when we’re happy. Makes sense, right?
It’s amazing what we can see ourselves having when we’re happy. In 2011, I manifested an all-expenses-paid trip to Brazil. I was already vibrating at a high level and dared to believe that this was mine. I was already in a happy relationship, living in a city I loved, doing my Master’s and manifested this without a problem. Isn’t that a great lesson in loving your current life in order to manifest even more into it?
If you fear letting go, you are actually in fear of your life staying the same in case you should suddenly let go of your desire. However, you fall into the wrong way of thinking when this becomes your perception, as letting go allows your desires to manifest instead of vaporize.
Law of Attraction can be confusing because it is the opposite of what many have grown up believing.
When you are happy, you can imagine yourself having anything you want. I understand that sometimes, a struggle lies in having to make your current life happy when all you want to do is escape; however, why should any part of your life ever be unhappy? Don’t you deserve to have fun, be happy and feel fulfilled no matter what you do?
You can love your current life and manifest your dream one.
Those who fall into the trap of trying to make their current reality happier without trying often attempt to manifest signs of their desires manifesting. If they fail to see a specific sign just once, their vibration is at lowers without effort. Instead, they should appreciate everything they already have – cook an extravagant meal, go out with their friends, play with their dogs, go shopping, have a bubble bath, pick out work outfits for the following days, read a book, see a movie, listen to music, donate some money or clothes, manifest some money just for fun, go for a walk, visit their parents or get a mani pedi.
Regardless of where I am, I like to focus on the parts of it I find beautiful, tasteful, stimulating, fun, relaxing or just happy. I love good food and coffee. I love clothes, organic cosmetics and great conversations. I love spreading good mood onto others. I love animals, music, dancing and laughing, writing, books, acting and movies. I love both traveling and photography. I love dog walking. I love spending time with my friends. I could go on but you get the idea.
I have recently learned that essential oils are a proven method of raising one’s vibration, as they naturally vibrate on high frequencies. Last summer, I used my oil burner as usual but for the first time, I started to feel different. I didn’t know if it meant anything until just weeks ago, when I was told about this natural quality of essential oils. Then, I received an article corroborating the claim. Now that you know this, do you see yourself even happier at home while enjoying this fragrance bliss?
I used to use essential oils often but since discovering their most amazing benefits, I’ve been using them daily.
Last week, I attended the opening of an exhibit by an accomplished photographer and artist. His pieces striking and stimulating, the audience a mix of acquaintances, friends, celebrities and new faces with a private concert as well as traditional catering, this event provided for a great reminder of the many lovely individuals I know and the fun I can have.
Here’s a quick snap on the way out:
Several weeks ago, my 13-year-old cousin had her first night on the town. My friends and I took her out on a Saturday night, giving her a taste of the party scene. She had an amazing time. She was dressed trendy while I went slightly classic but sexy. My friends treated her as an equal. She was up for a good time, fun conversations and discussing the cutest member of One Direction. She drank Coke while we drank gin and tonic in great moderation. She laughed while I sang loudly and danced to Wham! in my seat, with one of my friends. She was entertained by funny boyfriend stories. The police greeted us in the street. We made sure that by law, she had no curfew if accompanied by an adult and knew the places we were allowed to take her as long as she steered clear of alcohol. Our late night cab ride home was also fun, as the dancing never stopped. It was a great night.
Saturday night, I visited family friends. The meal served resembled a French cuisine spread – various types of cheese, home-made bread, select meats, olives and red wine. I couldn’t believe how much I ate. The conversation ignited many laughs. At one point, the group split into sports followers that occupied the living room and coffee-drinking, current events discussion participants who remained in the dining room. Then, it was men and women separately.
All these examples provide proof that we all have the ability to make our lives interesting but fun. Perceiving your own life as interesting and fun just as it is allows you to raise your vibration and bring even more love into it. Positive events such as these allow you to feel love for yourself, your life and all the exciting parts of it while suddenly giving you a chance to be able to see yourself living your dream life.
I’m off to buy more candles and essential oils.
When you love the manifestation period preceding your desire, you receive it fast; you’re probably aware of this already.
Let me explain.
Every single time you manifested something without the need to rush it, it came to you fast. Sometimes, this desire appeared in your life instantly.
This can happen with desires one perceives as “small” or “likely to have.” However, those perceived as “life changing” cause resistance, fear, uncertainty and doubt many use to give up on them. If unfamiliar with creation principles, unaware of LoA or not used to consciously creating, one might automatically shut down the flow of positive energy upon the appearance of those thoughts. One might feel all sorts of doubt and anxiety lowering their vibration.
When attaching profoundly positive feelings to your desire, no matter how big or small you’ve perceived it to be, that desire becomes a natural course of events in your mind. You know it’s coming. You know it’s yours already.
MANIFESTATIONS NOW AND THEN
I used to create intricate manifestation stories in certain areas of my life instead of allowing them to come to life easily because I perceived that easy path as boring. When manifesting my past relationships, I wanted to make all the first moves and then, enjoy what I created. Many wish they didn’t have to make an effort with relationships and I thrived on “making it happen.” I would create work where there wasn’t any because a great story of a relationship coming to life had to be present.
In addition, I thrived on showing others they could make anything happen and being assertive about everything I desired was the way to go. I was comfortable with taking action and over time, I realized the following.
Projecting the right energy was an action in itself. In truth, one doesn’t have to do anything in order to receive their desire – some do nothing and receive and others do everything without seeing change.
Manifesting money has always gone interestingly in my life. I continuously receive double the expected for any amount when shopping, as the items I desire seem to be on sale most of the time. I have often received gifts and beauty treatments. I have unexpectedly found money in the past. I went on all-expenses-paid trips. When envisioning my last professional fee, I received double the amount.
I also enjoy giving, donating and treating my loved ones greatly. I love to pay for dinner, concert tickets, groceries, drinks, gas (when someone else is driving) or cab rides, donating money to charities and give gifts. I donate clothes on a regular basis, all in fantastic condition. Others also enjoy treating me to dinner, drinks or entertainment. Positive feelings are attached to money in my world.
There was a time in my life when I was unsure if budgeting could bring me positive results but wanted to try it anyway. It was one of the least fruitful decisions I’d ever made. Budgeting created momentary money limitations in my mind, which would lead to generally having less, not more. I needed to change those beliefs once again but learned several valuable lessons along the way.
When manifesting work engagements, I quickly discovered my likes and dislikes. Before deciding on what I truly wanted to do, I tried out a variety of jobs. I was interested in life and wanted as many different experiences as I was willing to dedicate my time to. Twice in my life, I gave sending out my CV to apply for jobs a try and hated it with passion each time (even when it would lead to employment).
My preferred method rested in the expectation that others would seek me out for professional engagements and, they did. I would decide what I wanted to do, as detailed as I could, and know it was mine.
I believe it was so due to a simple creation principle – that which perpetuates the lack of our desire makes us miserable and creates more of the same.
To me, sending out my CV only made me feel like I was searching for a job instead of having it. I felt this practice lowering my personal standards. I am much happier asking for my perfect gig and letting it go, inevitably leading to manifestation. This hasn’t changed but my relationship manifestations have.
Your intention is what matters. To some, CV sending perpetuates the feeling of looking for a job. To others, it is a highly positive practice that will lead to their ideal job. You may either alter your perception or your practice in order to change your awareness.
An additional factor involved in this idea was my knowing I would return to writing as soon as I was ready.
Over time, I discovered the appeal of relationships, observed my old mistakes without emotion and reassessed my true desires.
There was a time I held mostly negative views of relationships but learned it was so because I wasn’t entirely basing them on pure love. However, I would also always preset their expiration date (instead of allowing them to take their natural course, whatever that might have been). Holding negative views on relationships was fueled by my belief that I was meeting and dating men who could simply never be enough for me. I started to wonder about what I was missing and therefore wanted.
Relationships can be pure bliss, with energy clear, loving feelings prevailing and problems easily solved. When problems appear, many see them as the end of the world, lowering their vibration and causing more problems. When good times come, one may either be grateful for their abundance and lasting bliss or expect them to fade any minute because “good things don’t last.” Either way, their awareness will determine the continuation or the halt of bliss in their lives.
When manifesting relationships today, I ask for my desire and automatically know it’s mine. I visualize everything I want the relationship to be. I visualize everything I want us to be and live. I live it before we do together – I feel what it’s like to have it. There is usually one visualization I repeat more than others – spontaneously created, emotion-filled, a favorite. This particular visualization reflects everything I want to be, the adoration I feel for my man and the relationship I want to live. Sometimes, I only have to do it once before the relationship appears.
The reason for manifesting a specific relationship should rest in nothing but love for the person you want to be with. Some relationships, I manifested because I saw the man I had my eye on as an amazing person who would be an exceptional boyfriend. Others, I manifested when simply wanting the experience of being with a specific man.
I am tempted to add the following passage to every single post I ever write from now on.
KNOWING that your desire is yours brings inner peace and removes the need for signs. Knowing your desire is yours already boosts the feeling of love for your manifestation period. If you discover that having your desire doesn’t make you feel good, this is an entirely separate issue from the feeling of not having it in your life; you must feel good about having your desire in your life.
If you don’t KNOW it’s YOURS, no amount of signs is going to help.
How can you know?
Because your desire belongs to you the moment you ask for it. The Universe creates the very moment we ask. Then, allowing your desire to come into your reality is the only thing left.
Does having every desire in your life make you feel good? It didn’t always make me feel good, especially with relationships. Seeing myself with several specific men was only tempting in theory while in reality, I had to admit to myself that I didn’t truly want them. Wanting to care about someone didn’t mean I automatically would.
As one of my close friends once said, “I know you tried to want that relationship but if you don’t, you don’t.” Obviously, the “trying” to want it only leads to more trying and unless I was willing to alter my beliefs, the time had come to move on.
When manifesting anything, one would go wrong seeing it as following the steps and manifesting their desire. Are you aware of having your desire or currently manifesting it? From moment one, be aware that your desire is yours already and follow the steps without overthinking them. Observe your thoughts emotionlessly. Don’t think about the steps as you’re making them and how correct they are while looking out for your desire to appear at the same time. That is not having; it is manifesting which will lead to more manifesting.
From the moment of asking for your desire, assume that it is yours without waiting for it to appear. Complete manifestation steps as you feel that your desire is yours already while also feeling gratitude for having it in your life. This knowing will make your manifestation period a happy one, not to mention the necessity of knowing that your desire is yours before being able to receive it.
Getting what I give has never been a problem. Would you like to do the same?
Make doing what makes you happy your priority. Those who do receive everything they want from the Universe, as if they never had to seek it out. When doing what makes you happy becomes your only action taken in life, you need for nothing and see everything you want practically handed to you.
A point can be reached when any and every negative thought feels and therefore, is nothing but false and paranoid.
Once reaching this point, one realizes exactly why living in fear is not living at all.
After reaching this point, a myriad of signs come my way, perpetuating the feeling of having my desire already as well as increasing it.
The other night, I caught a meteor shower. I saw four falling stars. I hear significant songs everywhere I go. I see (or hear) my chosen sign. The rest of the time, I feel amazing.
Negative thoughts can be related to physical discomfort. I’ve been known to have them when severely sleep deprived and as rarely as that happens, I know their exact cause. Everyone experiences negative thoughts but the trick is to be stronger than them. Fighting these thoughts is the most effective way of giving them even more power – ignoring them while loving your positive thoughts and desires causes them to become inconspicuous shortly.
Many of you who have achieved a much more positive awareness already know what I mean.
Today, I read an article dealing with embracing one’s pain and negative feelings instead of fighting them (and thereby, amplifying them). This article reminded me of my own contention that resisting resistance is what resistance truly means; there is no need for one’s thoughts to be absolutely perfect in order to manifest one’s desires but instead, giving energy to one’s desirable thoughts is more than enough. This allows for one to be and effortlessly create with Law of Attraction instead of falling into the comfort zone of life staying exactly the same.
You must want and love your change. This year, I wanted mine slowly at first, which went against my core beliefs.
In the spring, I ended my last romantic involvement and shared the story with all of you. When I initially attracted him in January (only days after asking for him), I felt myself getting ready for love and (almost) literally asked for a transitional guy to enjoy beforehand. During our time, I was becoming ready for love but simply couldn’t love him. Then, I realized – how could I have loved him if he and our relationship weren’t created that way in my mind? I asked myself if I wanted to love him and the answer was no. I simply had no desire to create love with him.
He was only the second generic man I had manifested in my life. Six years ago, I wanted to fall in love and thought about the specific qualities I wanted this man to have. I met him soon but after the relationship had run its course in my mind which caused me to leave, I wanted only short-term relationships for a very long time. My preferred practice lies in choosing specific people and manifesting relationships with them; a much bigger rush and an increased ability to appreciate the person exactly for who they are come to me as a result of falling for the individuality of a specific man.
When it comes to negative thoughts in or about relationships, they can cause frustration easily. As upsetting as it can be to produce negative thoughts around someone you love, you must remember that if you produced them so easily, you can also eliminate them. Once you face them and stop “trying” to remove them, they’ll fade on their own. However, it is important to know that no matter what, your dream relationship is yours. This conviction will lead to improvement on its own, even if it takes a few days to achieve. (I’m saying “days” because I want all of you to achieve your dreams shortly.) You will make positive choices. You will realize why happiness for your desire is possible right now – moreover, why it is the only logical choice. You will have become courageous and endlessly loving towards yourself as well as dream relationship. You will love your specific person more than ever. Even more.
I truly believe that negative thoughts come as a result of fearing change. Depending on your place in life or your current beliefs, the feelings of inadequacy may plague your mind. However, today is the day to create yourself happy.
I know you can do this. I love you all.
Your reactions to appearances and external stimuli effortlessly show where your awareness is and with that, where you feel your current place in life to be.
Sometimes, it isn’t that we attract entirely different events or see the signs we want from the start; often, it is all about which ones we relate to and react to.
Here’s an example.
You hear two songs on the radio. One is almost heartbreaking and another uplifting. The one you reacted to positively or negatively indicates how you feel about the relationship you currently have or want to have. Your complete relaxation could be a positive indicator of confidence in your perfect reality. The sadness you feel might say a lot about your current relationship and your perception of it.
See what I mean? That is what Law of Attraction is about. What did you react to and how?
How do you want to feel, on the other hand?
When you see a happy couple, do you feel sadness for not having love in your life? Do you fear that you might be alone forever? Or, do you agree with their happiness, feeling that they deserve it? Are you happy for them, following that sentiment with gratitude for your perfect relationship?
Do you find a happy couple easy to relate to?
Who are you? Because who you are is reflected in your beliefs, actions, interactions and reactions.
Do you relate to your friends’ relationships or their sad dating stories? Do you feel that there are any similarities between the lives of those around you and yours? Who do you feel connected to? Ask yourself and answer honestly because those answers will give you an insight into your own awareness.
It’s time to create your life as you want it.
If you feel disconnected to those around you or are you comfortable around them? Who would you like to be in a close proximity to and see every day? Do you feel that this possible?
Your feelings about seeing any type of signs related to your desire also serve as proof to your awareness.
Seeing the sings that remind you of your desire can serve as a confidence boost; however, looking for them proves you are not yet convinced that your desire is all yours. If you need to see signs, you are not sure that your desire is yours already. When you know it’s yours, you’re relaxed and/or excited.
You are sure.
You are convinced.
If you feel that you don’t have your desire already, ask yourself why. Why do you feel incapable of manifesting your dream life? Are you sure you want it after all? Do you beat yourself up for any negative thoughts that cross your mind?
No one feels confident or thrillingly happy every second and you don’t have to either. You can manifest your dream life just as you are – you are good enough, smart enough, attractive enough already. You are worthy. All you have to do is own your qualities.
Remind yourself that simply because you’ve decided so, manifesting your desire is a done deal.
Changing your awareness means accepting a new addition to your identity. Just as you now feel that some things are out of reach while others are more likely to appear in your life, you can allow yourself to feel that anything is within your reach.
Your desires are within your reach.
Those who wait for the external world to reflect their desires in order to feel that they have them emit a signal of not having them, needing them and feeling desperate for them. Don’t beat yourself up if you have ever felt this way – you can change your awareness this very second. You can!
You can feel your desire within your reach. You have to be convinced that living your desire is who you are, that this is already your reality and a part of your life.
If you don’t mean it, you can’t do it.
With the Law of Attraction, we are able to shift between realities, manifest our desires and even change our memories of the past. We are able to choose and step inside the realities we wish to experience but if we pay close attention, we can feel ourselves to be on an actual way to a new reality.
I love shifting between realities. Feeling this shift gives me a unique rush of emotion, sights, sounds, taste and touch.
Several times, I’ve manifested individuals into my life without physically meeting them first. Seeing them on Facebook, briefly in passing or even on television, my decisions to experience them would lead to contact, conversation, friendships or even relationships. Then, I decided to explore what happens on the way to manifesting a specific person. I became attuned to the process.
Deciding I loved the process of bringing any specific person into my life, I asked the Universe to allow me to feel this change as it was occurring. I felt it through energy exchange, physical sensations and various visible (or invisible) signs.
Once, I felt the heart energy of a specific person I was manifesting. We hadn’t physically come into contact yet but I felt their heart energy touching me. While manifesting them, I changed the idea of what I wanted our relationship to be several times, making it impossible for them to come into my life fast. Undecided, I chose to accept my feelings, knowing they would appear once I finally decided what I wanted from them exactly. However, having sent so much heart energy towards them in the process ensured that they began sending it back to me and I began to wonder if they were aware of it. One can imagine a new friend, a new lover, a new collaborate or a new interesting individual they wish to have without putting a face to them but knowing how they would feel once the meeting would occur. I wondered if this person was aware we were attracting each other into our lives and I wondered who I was to them. Were they looking to find someone who understood them and began to respond to my heart energy/attracting me? Were they looking for someone to inspire them? A new friend? Or were they simply feeling like they were about to meet someone new, without thinking too much about who it would be but knowing the experience would be fascinating? Were they just expecting to meet new people or were they thinking about the specific traits in people they wanted to meet? Were they looking to fall in love?
Another time, one of my close friends manifested our entire friendship. We’d met several times and I had no idea we would end up as close as we are today. However, he wanted us to be friends and spoke to me as if we already were, a tactic I had used in the past but rarely saw others do the same. I loved his warm energy and sharp sense of humor, both of which caused me to want to discover more about him. All of this intrigued me and reminded me that individuals sometimes meet for various purposes and even different initial intentions but the stronger energy attached to a goal will decide on their specific relationship. One could argue I gained even more than I had asked for – a new friend. We met while looking for different things but one liked the other’s positive energy attached to the idea of becoming friends.
Case three, I wished to manifest a relationship with a specific person and asked to feel the shift in realities. Suddenly, I would feel myself used to receiving messages from him; this thrilling feeling resulted in talking to each other constantly. The change occurred within two days. When manifesting seeing him on a specific night, I could feel his presence in the room already. Then, I had a spontaneous visualization of him walking in the street nearby only to find out he had taken that specific way towards our place of meeting. Unable to explain these feelings, I chose to take them as signs that my desire was manifesting because I only accepted receiving my desire and nothing less. My determination was all I needed to rely on. I felt as if the two realities briefly overlapped but as soon as I began to feel an absence of loving feelings on my end, I knew I desired a different reality. Taking this specific leap was just as emotional but had already taught me I wished to feel a connection in a relationship stronger than I did with this specific person.
In another situation of manifesting a relationship with a specific person, I became so relaxed and so trusting about having my desire already that I let go completely. Every single step of the way made me happy and in retrospect, there were so few but with each and every one, I was receiving even more magic than I had asked for. I had completely forgotten about ego, pride and control. I finally understood what it was all about. The experiences of crossing between realities in this case were entirely effortless because I had opened my heart to them and this specific person fully. I loved preparing every single corner of my physical reality for the arrival of this manifestation. I knew it was mine and every day spent manifesting it was filled with love. From then on, I decided to create everything in this particular way. Today, every step of creation is absolutely electric in my experience.
Every possible reality you wish to live already exists – this concept alone is almost enough to make me feel secure in anything I wish to manifest. One’s infinite ability to create and manifest every single dream they have is a thought that evokes endless happiness in my life. Personally, I needed to embrace the process of figuring out what I wish to experience – a concept I judged myself by. In the past, I judged myself for not knowing what I wanted at times which never helped me figure it out faster. I judged myself for changing my mind at times as well as experiencing occasional paranoid thoughts, thinking that I needed to resolve everything at once. All I needed to do was embrace and love my desired goal, whatever that may be.
I began finding excitement in seeing how things would unfold instead of trying to control them. I began to love the “how,” an aspect of creation which causes much concern among many. All I knew was that no matter what happened, I already had my perfect reality; it already belonged to me, I loved it and was awaiting its arrival.
Positive signs mean that your desire is on its way – a lack of signs or what you may have perceived as “bad” signs in the past mean nothing. They are to be ignored and they never mean that your desire is out of reach. The perception of any circumstance or event is entirely up to you and what you wish to create is entirely in your hands.
I always choose to listen to myself rather than the world and I am grateful to have all the ability I need to create instead of having to rely on the ideas of the world for wisdom and advice. I choose the perception I have of myself and reality aligns. I choose it with love and manifest more love in return therefore loving every step of the way ensures for an exciting creation process.